Lingui said, he is already 65 years old, his wife of 60 years, they have been retired, they add up to a monthly pension of about 2,200 yuan. Lin Jun hospital a month now cost about 3,000 yuan. Son before the work unit, out of 500 yuan per month, plus his son's health insurance, barely a month to sustain. At present a great burden on their foreign debt.
bedside, Lin Jun 65-year-old father Lingui (a pseudonym) gray hair, and looked haggard. Treatment for the son he has more than 10 million debt, already physically and mentally exhausted, and now there is one thing that he is also very difficult, daughter Qiu Ying (a pseudonym) again for divorce.
Lingui said his son Lin Jungang time of the accident, Qiu Ying also more frequently to the hospital. Later, she went to the hospital become less and less the number of times, sometimes for several months and occasionally to one. Qiu Ying is the last to visit her husband in late 2008.
lawyers say: any kind of decision would hurt the other
but a civil point of view, the woman who most need to take care of her husband divorced when mentioned, is a form of abandonment behavior, as will sentence them to divorce, depending on how the court hearing.
and Qiu Ying believes that, even with their own children, the children must take a month alimony and rehabilitation costs, shall be vested in the common property between husband and wife all woman.
January 4 this year, Lin Gui received Cangshan court sent a summons to appear in court dealing with his son and daughter a divorce case.
Yesterday, the 38-year-old Lin Jun (a pseudonym) lie spirit of the First Hospital of Fuzhou surgical bed, a pair of dull eyes glanced around. In fact,north face vest, seven years ago, he became a vegetative state because of sudden stroke.
daughter: Unfortunately, talking about his various experiences, she could not help but gush tears eyes. to take care of her husband, also hopes her husband a speedy recovery. But since her husband has been hospitalized, in addition to her work, but also to take care of son with autism a few years, she physically and mentally fatigued.
so, Qiu Ying how to do? The family was not this broken? If you have any suggestions or comments, please call our hotline to tell us.
this, Fujian Ding Zhao Li fight by lawyers said law firms, regardless of the court Qiu Ying and Lin Jun divorce or not divorce any of them are very difficult decision to support the party, it means more or less damage to another party.
matter, what kind of Qiu Ying make a choice,griffeys shoes - Giant Chairman Shi Yuzhu microblo, life goes on, we have to take a more forgiving heart to look at her. Hope to have more of a helping hand, come up with better solutions, both for Chiu Ying live more easily, also let her husband and son to get better treatment and care. Hetang Yan
In addition, he proposed a hypothesis that, if not divorce, is not shared by the social assistance through difficulties?
a woman's difficult decision
In fact, as early as 2005, Qiu Ying with Lin Jun proposed to divorce, but because it was Lin Gui Lin Jun has not been identified as the legal guardian, therefore, the Court did not accept the case.
For two retired elderly, it really is not a small figure.
, mention the divorce will attract some criticism and even blame. It is now Lingui and Qiu Ying focus. Lingui said that once the divorce, you must ensure that the future cost of treatment and care of the son of the matter, tend to the man on the distribution of property.
a vegetative state,north face jackets, can not take care of themselves first, followed by his wife and children he can not do their obligations, the wife is destined to be lonely suffering, the children enjoy the father. In fact, the presence of family is in name only.
but the reality is often more complex than the film - an extraordinary woman, Qiu Ying is facing an embarrassing and painful choices, her pain is, if you choose a divorce, she may have to bear the moral condemnation, it is difficult understood by family members; and her embarrassment is that if you do not divorce, the husband and the face of vegetative son with autism, she is powerless, overwhelmed.
life to this young woman out of a big problem, but no answers - how could she do?
father: suddenly fell to the ground, was rushed to hospital. Since then, no longer stand up, can not speak, identified by the judiciary, Lin Juncheng as a Time of the accident, Sun Zigang least 2 years of age.
movie In our view, Sophie's Choice is a feeling of pain and pleasure, because no matter what her outcome will not be too bad, she will find love and happiness.
Qiu Ying Lin Gui also led to divorce the issue of the relatives and friends of the hot. Some friends and relatives so that she divorce, equal to abandon her husband, is morally justified; also suggested that she wanted a divorce has forgiven, but to divorce her husband and his family have to take into account the future life, such as the two sides negotiate how to share the good debt the problem.
for things to divorce Qiu Ying, Lin Gui said he can accept and understand the situation of the daughter all these years, but he is only worried about his son's future. He said that if the military and Qiu Ying Lin divorced, there is no legal obligation to support each other to take care of.